‘’Looks can tell a lot about a person’’.
That is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. Looks don’t make up a person. What he or she holds in inside is what makes them. What they have faced throughout their life, that’s what carves their personality and etches idiosyncrasies in their personality.
Sure, there is a bigger possibility of a person being narcissistic or egoistic if they are hotter but it’s not an obligation. I’ve met with a lot of single hotter women who are actually really nice and have a very optimistic approach towards life. They care more and love more. We should get these stereotypes of our head and actually give everyone an open chance to be nice. Sometimes people just become nice because they are expected to be and sometimes they just act evil or distant because that’s what the society expects them to be.
This is a masquerade and every one of us wears it. You and me, all of us, but that’s not who we are. These are just our defensive barriers that we have put forth to shield our vulnerability. You can only know about a person when you truly get to know them by spending time with them and actually getting to know them.
It all comes down to how badly we find the need to break these societal rules, norms and perceptions and see beyond them. Life and specifically, relationships are a lot easier when you free yourself from these.
The bottom line is that no one should lose their confidence because of what others say or think. An attractive woman shouldn’t feel like she’s being treated differently because of how she looks. She should appreciate what she has and not give a second thought to what anyone else says or thinks about her because at the end of the day, it’s her life to live and no one else’s. People will say whatever they feel like saying.
Things will be said about you even if you did nothing wrong (as in most cases). The only thing you can do is not let any of that get to you. Don’t let it change you or make you doubt yourself. It’s a completely different thing if you’re in the wrong; however, if you’re not then you shouldn’t be the one to change.
