I've encountered many men lately who claims to want a good woman... but it seems when a good woman comes by, they seem to run away.
Not every man that says he wants a good woman is ready for one. Just because he claims he wants a good woman doesn’t mean he will do right by her. Men are known to sing the same song when it comes to wanting a good woman who can cook, clean, ain’t out clubbing every weekend, looks good, sexes him good and is loyal.
They make up this perfect female in their head of what they want her to be and look like, yet fail to look at the B.S. that’s keeping them from finding a good woman let alone keeping one. The very things they say they want in a woman are the very things they themselves lack. They fail to meet the requirements of their requirements.
Some men are so use to dealing with h*es that when they come around a good woman who will call them out on their bullsh*t and challenge them for the better they can’t handle it. And so the good woman they claimed to want is now this b*tch who nags too much. Being with a good woman requires them to check themselves and that’s something most men run from. Chasing p*ssy becomes a lot easier than to face the man in the mirror and acknowledge his weaknesses and short comings as a man. H*es will praise him for the sh*t that is required of him anyway, where as a good woman will push him for greater.
When a man who promised you to be different turns out to be another weak boy pretending to be a man simply walk away and allow him to grow into the shoes of a real man. Don’t waste your time trying to get him to grow up, silence is the best medicine for a man whose mental age is the size of his d*ck. You are good enough for any man, but the wrong man will never see it. He is too busy chasing skirts to appreciate the good woman standing in front of him and its not your job to prove your worth to him. If he can’t see it that’s his loss, not yours.
