Have you ever experienced that one guy that you wanted so bad, but he just did not want you? Ladies, you aren’t alone. Everyone has experienced this at least once. When that guy you have a crush on doesn’t seem that interested, it drives you crazy. You start to think you’re going mental because you feel as though you have all this amazing love to give that guy, but he doesn’t want it. If you are like me, then you tend to go after the “bad boys”, who are so bad they don’t care about anything. Save yourself the trouble, and date a guy that actually cares about you. You cannot help who you like/love or when it happens, but you can control how it affects you. If a man does not feel the same way you do, then try to understand that he was not meant for you. Put on your sexy red lipstick, and kiss him goodbye! You don’t have to end on bad terms with the guy, but just know that someone out there is meant to love all of you. Maybe that person was not looking for anything serious, just did not like something about you, or maybe he was just into another woman. The most important thing to remember, is that there is nothing wrong with you.
Us as humans, have this craving for others to like us; if they do not like us we obsess over what we did to make them feel that way. If you think this does not apply to you, think again. Everyone wants acceptance, and to feel loved by people they meet, it is just in our nature. The reality is, not everyone is going to meet you and fall in love with you! There’s a quote that says, “you can be the ripest peach in the world, but there is still going to be someone who hates peaches.” This is completely true; do not drive yourself crazy chasing after someone who does not realize you are amazing. Trust me, believe it or not; YOU ARE AMAZING. Please do not stoop to changing yourself and lowering your standards to get him to like you. There is a small chance that you could change his mind, but at what price? To chase after the one that seems unattainable might be addicting for a bit, but after a while it takes a toll on you. Everyone wants things that they cannot have, because it’s a challenge. When you text that one guy and he does not respond, does it drive you crazy? Let me guess, you sit around bummed out, refreshing your phone, hoping he texts you back. This is unhealthy, ladies! The harsh truth is you are going insane over a guy that probably does not even have your number saved. Do not let these types of guys harden your heart, they aren’t worth it. You deserve someone who waits for your text, and gives YOU the type of love you want to give everyone else.
Rather than looking for love and acceptance from some crummy guy, receive it from yourself. Because guess what? You will ALWAYS be able to count on yourself. Maybe you feel down sometimes and may not like who you are, but you eventually pick yourself back up. You should not have to force, or beg a man to see how beautiful you are on the inside and out. You could be chasing after that guy, and you could pass or hurt the one that is meant for you. The more you imagine what the two of you could be in the future, the more you’re digging yourself deeper in the hole. The little games we take part in playing are fun at a certain time in our lives, but you don’t want to be in your 30s still playing the “I don’t know if he even likes me” game. If a man has feelings for you, he will make it known, you should not have to question it. Listen, it is easy to go for the wrong guy, but the real challenge is going after the right guy, which means, finally allowing yourself to be loved. It is okay to kiss a lot of frogs, but make sure you know when it’s time to put the frog down, wash your hands, and go after Prince Charming. No matter what anyone says, you deserve your Prince Charming. As my final piece of advice, I want you to remember to love yourself enough to allow the right kind of love into your life.
Take my advice coming from my own personal experience.😉
