Healthy, stable, and loving relationships don’t happen by magic. They happen as the result of two people actively working together to be a team, empathizing with the other’s point of view, and making compromises. If that sounds terribly romantic to you, then it is worth reflecting on what type of relationship you believe can be sustained over the long-term without these basic attributes as part of the foundation. Consider how all of your actions within the context of your relationship are either strengthening or weakening its basic foundation. What behaviors can you choose that will serve to strengthen and reinforce your loving committed bond to your partner? How are your behaviors congruent with the type of relationship that you value and strive to maintain?
“you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.” – Deepak Chopra
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